This is an important part in any relationship to preserve when a baby arrives. Moms can sometimes get so caught up in the little ones that they neglect their "first love" (or first kid). It is key however to factor in some "us" times without the baby to keep the spark in the relationship going. Grandparents, aunts, uncles, siblings available? Do give them bonding time with the kids and hit the road for some needed time together. When daddy is happy, mommy is happy, and daddy will volunteer more easily to change some diapers or do night wakings (Good trade off!). What has it been like for you? Please share.